Life's Contradictions ..

Contradiction ..quite a word huh ! Have you ever wondered the number of contradictions we come across everyday .. dahh i know im sounding all philosophical with this , but its just a randon thought i got while trying to read "Computer Networks ".
Il just list a few that poped up in my head :
1.Begging and giving charity :
We ve been always taught that beggin is a bad thing and never beg it what so ever situation and rather try workig hard to get what we want , at the same time we are taught quite contradictorily to give away alms , to dante things , or charity to be precise !
 2.Murder and Euthanasia :
This now a very sensitive issue  killing someone is bad , in fact a crime .. but what if the doctors do it in the name of mercy killing , this point confuses me a lot .. neva  found a true answer for this contradiction !!
3.Freedom of speech :
To say what we feel is right is a birth right , but what if this little  gestures irks somebody's sentiments or thoughts ?.. In the case of reality shows this happens to be the latest trend , even on many social networking sites .. people publicly abuse someone and later say sorry again publicly ... I ask is the word sorry being abused rather than the person ??
4.Technology :
My dearest cell phone cant stay a moment without it , I neva knew id give so much importance to a metal piece :P.Technology is quite a boon to us ... because of this we are connected with everyone all the time !!!.. Are we not forgetting the person right beside us in this rat race ? .. i mean ya its fun cool and quite an obsession .. but sometimes .. nah say most of the time we forget to acknowledge the people with us in the pursuit to stay  connected with someone who is miles away !!!
If i have to go on there are many such things. For example loving somebody who is not right for you in any possible way .Sometimes choosing something that does suit you just for the heck of it .... aren't there many such situations when you choose the wrong side knowingly .
So, these are a few things that bother me as a matter of fact  :p ;)

( guess lil bit of studying did wonders to my head , that i started thinking of contradicting stuff :p)

JUST SAY IT !!!

This one is from one of my collections !!

Today i was just going through the articles that i collected and i found this one ,i thought il post it for good !

so here it goes like this :

10th grade

As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called "best friend". I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

11th grade
The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

Senior year
The day before prom she walked to my locker. My date is sick" she said; he's not going to go well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together just as "best friends". So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she isn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

Graduation Day
A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, "you're my best friend, thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

A Few Years Later
Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say "I do" and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said "you came!". She said "thanks" and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

Funeral
Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend". At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me! `I wish I did too...` I thought to my self, and I cried. 

Well that was a wee bit emotional ... what i wana say is that when we feel something strong towards someone we've got to express our feelings rather than waiting for the other person to .... JUst simple story to think over !! 

Traditional DAy !

Well couldn't stop myself mentioning about this particular day !!
I in general we that is Methodians  always used to complain that nothing good happens at our college !! ... We were fed up repeated flop shows ... So, when there was traditional day declared , I thought it would be one of the same things where few of us would turn up in traditional attires and the rest god knows what ?! .. with Oh so boring speeches !! But what happened on 29.10.2010  was completely off the edge !!!! The day swept us us off our feet !
I could see all kinds of colors ( traditional if i have to mention) around me. Surprisingly all the students were at their traditional best ... we had RadioMirchi people conducting some show ! we had an awesome DJ too !!!
The best part of the day was Garba and Dhandia were everyone of us danced till our shoes wore off ..!!.. This included our faculty !!
 So, by this i understood one thing,.. what our management needs is a little more persuasion than the usual to get something done at a success level !! ... :)))))

Rocking Day !!!  :))

Did U sMile Today ?

I cant believe it .. I almost stopped blogging !!! ... Woke up today and I suddenly realized ,when was the last time I posted something ?.. Well hear I am today , hoping to come up with something good !


Well the reason why decided to blog today was a morning msg that i got early today . it goes something like this :

Its so common hearing
how r u ?
what r u doing ?
how was ur day ?
 so let me ask u something different :
did u smile today ? if not,do it now ! good morning :)

It sounded sensible to me .And why did I find it so amusing ? .. hmm yesterday night before I went to bed my friend called me up saying there was a tragic and sudden death  in his family and he was sobbing all over ! None of my comforting words could pacify him,I realized he was the same person telling everyone to keep happy no matter what happens ! I slept with these thoughts nagging me .


 When somebody wishes us we tend to reply and then ask how you doing and stuff , well most of us do ! .. so , why not give a shot at this ( well not at all times and not with all of 'em ! .. ) and ask our loved ones "did ya smile Today ? :) ".Life is a one time opportunity you don't often get second chances  , before you can say " Life's hard ", think  "Compared to what? ".You always have a reason to smile if you look closely,grab the reason and smile ! .. Because anything can happen at any moment hear , just like a twist in a mystery novel !
All I wanted to say is smile at every chance you get  :)

ExtrOVERTiSm :P

Lovely morning ... siting on a swing on the roof top garden enjoying the blissful morning ...birds singing , butterflies buzzing ... ah can all days be so good !!

This is how my day started today! .. For the first time in 2 years I noticed the goodness of morning RAGAS !! .. wondering what these RAGAS are ... well they are sounds of nature ... birds cooking , butterflies buzzing , mums calling out for their kids to wake up... Where have all these sounds gone all these days , i asked myself this question for nearly an hour ... Then i realized , its not the morning that has changed but the way i look at it changed !!

I felt ive finally come outa the box that ive been trapped for the past few months , I can breath easy now .. I realized life isnt about pleasing someone ! .. Its about pleasing yourself !( without hurting others :P )

Some situations that happend recently made me a strong willed person that I was not before !  People around me are responsible for this .Now even though they try to fiddle with my thoughts or decisions they can even cross the bridge .. Coz I make my decisions now !.. I live my life now ... Nobody can ditter me or pull me down with their lame actions !

And one thing that I found out today is When ur happie the world around you seems a wonderful place , but when ur sad it seems to be hell .. !!... I LOve being my Extrovert self rather than Introvert !!!

ConfuSEd !

People change ?!... Do they really change or is it the way we see them changes..

As I wandering in a trail of thoughts ,I wonderd about how different everything seemed to look from the way I thought it was.
People whom u thought were yours tend to give a slip when u need them the most , and people whom dont even acknowledge suddenly become most important persons in your life.
Some people seem to haunt you through out your life ... they just cant give it a rest ! ... What bothers me is the fact that when you seem to give up on somebody , they tend to come back claiming that theyve changed ! .. But how can u believe them ? .. do they really mean very word they speak ?!
Is it worth a chance again ?!.. What if they prove you wrong again ... how many chances can you give someone ??!... God all this thought process literally screws you to the core !
This is precisely the problem of being fickel minded ! ... nothing seems to be clear at the moment !!
This post is like a Jauxtapose of all my messed up thoughts ... I just wish not to tread on the wrong side of things ... I really wish the change this times is for keeps ! ...
Bored ?! ... well this is what i fell now , so I just put it up ...
I promise to come up with better ones next time !!! ....

BliSSful MOnsooN !

Rain rain go way come again another day .....nah !! i would say rain rain dont go away please do stay !

After a gruesome Summer ranging to 45^c rainz are alwayz a pleasant change ! ... Latley the weather of my Gorgeuos city is so serene !!.....

These rains tell us the story of life ! have u ever noticed ! ... the summer was like stream of  worries , pain , stress and hardwork ... which eventually change to happiness , stressless life like the blissful rains !... They show us there are alwayz good times waiting for us !...we tend to enjoy this even more because we had a hard time !... Rainz alwayz remind of my childhood dayz n also many songs which i tend to forget ! :P

pyar hua ikrar hua

ek ladki bheegi bhagi si

on the roof in the rain

bheegi bheegi raatho mein !.

I love the rainz ! ... the give me some sense of belonging .. connected to nature kind of feel ! ...feel like i have finally crossed the sea of sadness and attained happiness !:)) .................

SO RAINZ DO STAY !

HeAl The WorLD !!! .. A promise !

Well itz being talked about ,told about and  said about all the time and everywhere ! ... I was wondering after all that talk do we actually do our bit ?! Atleast a little .....We all know many ways on HOW TO CONSERVE .... but choose to be deaf and dumb , thinking why should I bother ?! .. well we sholud bother ,because its ultimately we who will face the consequenses !..

The recent case of OIL SPILL , who can be blamed for that !? and what about the Bopal Gas tregedy that happend years ago for which people plants and animals are still suffering !

Why does this always happen when somebody tells something its good when heard and  when it comes to implementing goes haywire !!!

One of friends said even litrate people choose to behave as illitrates on this issue ! why should this happen ?

All of have subject called ENVIRONMENT STUDIES ! how many of us actually attended this class regularly ?!.,,.. I started to see these things a little lately but finally did ! .... I wanted to do something more than just being concerned ! ... so, i joined IYCN ! ..

Im not somekind of messiah preaching stuff ! ... i just wana urge people to think about the world around us and the amount of damage we are causing !...

The litlle we do can make a huge impact on the long run ! ... lets do our bit !! ...

AS the Legend MJ said :
"heal the world make it a better place for you and for me and this entire human race ".........................................
This Is also my promise to the environment that il do my bit !

ME MY Myselff !!!!!

Today wanted to write something .. but was not able 2 think about a catchy issue .. cozzz  something was bothering me ! .. (my horoscpoe also said that it would happen ! :P :P : P)...
The thing that was bothering me was Y ? do some people tend 2 talk shit things about you when u practically ignore them and dont bother about them ! or even for the fact look at them !......you let them live at their own peace ... inspite of that they tend to spread some horrid rumours about you.... They try to put themslves in the limelight by doing so .. not even for a minute do they think that , this habbit could cause pain to others !..
How could people become so insensitive !..
This kinna stuff pisses me off ! yes ! it does !....
BUt as im ending this i feel better ! ,, hehe ... i mean to say ! people are like that only !! ... may be im popular ! (JOKE)!.
Yea ! well this is what i have to say to all those people .. I WAS NOT PUT ON THIS EARTH TO PLEASE U !!! ... I loVE The WAy Iam !!! :) =))

FaIryTale/LiFE

SnowWhite....

Cinderella,..,.,.,

Prince,princess !!!!

Once UpoN A tIMe ... in FAr far  aWay Land................
pixies,dwarfs....evil QuEEn...

Fairy tales ... dont they sound wonderful ??... A tragic gal ... growing up to be a princess , with a perfect prince charming waiting there somewhere jus to ask her out ! .. and  tadaaa ... a happy EnDIng !!!!

>> Today i thought il write about something that ive been feeling for quite sometime now ...

SOmetimes i desperately wish that life colud turn out to be like those stories from those amazing fairy tales ... perfect in every way !.. people often tell me that Im so much addicted to these fantasy world tales that sometimes i refuse to see the reality .. MAy be they are right .. i tend to live in a dreamworld,my fairytale land !...This little imaginary world of mine is where i find solace ( i knw  big word to use !! :P )......I sort of like it there !... i tend forget myself there !! .... BUt !!! Im not a complete downer !.. i do come into reality , I understand things n do stuff ..... Fairy tales may be for kids , but whose not a kid at heart ( atleast ocassionally :P ).. I loved them as a Kid .. And I still love them .....

REaLity CHeCk >: LIFES NO FAIRY TALE !!!!! :D ..................

A page frm My DAIry

Well ive been a boring blogger lately ... so i thought il spice it up this time ;) ..

2day as i was finishin my routine of writing my dear old dairy "AQUA"... well thats what i named it ...( yeah it sounds funnie , but thats me !! ).,.. I flipped the pages casually backward ... suddenly something caught my attention .. It was a dried up flower ! (ROSE)... a small note written on its petal ... I  never really paid atention to that when i received that flower , it took me a while to remember the person who gave me that!

I think it was nearly a year since i received it ...as i went back in time i rememberd the situation ....It was frm friend's friend. who came over a short trip to India......We sort of turned into good friends, cracking jokes , making fun of all kinds of situations ......Finally the day he had to leave arrived ... i neva expected but b4 leaving he gave me this rose asking me to keep it safe .. I dint bother much since it was just a flower ..! Today when i saw what was written on it I couldnt stop smiling,with a tear in my eye ... " I found my lost friend in U "... the reason 4 my tear was that his best friend passed away a few years back !!!! This was the best thing that anybody has ever told me till date !... I was so unlucky that i dint see this on that day itself ! .. now i dont even konw where he is , or what hez doin :((.... Today i realised that little things that go unnoticed sometimes mean a lot !.. .. !!

Yes I miss U !

Today is just one of those days were everything i did reminded me of u every song i heard somehow related to u. I hate days like 2day,becoz they remind me of one thing i dont have !... : (----

All these days ive been acting all strong ,I thought il get over u someday for sure.I was determined to do that .But somewhere something was wrong.I always end up thinking about u at some point of the day. not a single conversation ends without ur thought.I wish this would stop!! ....u made me and are still makin feel lonely !
The hardest part of missing you is that ur so close by yet i prefer to ignore you.....
I tried to move on,but i feel something pulling me back!.. when you used to call my heart used to start beating ,now that ur gone it wont stop bleeding !.. YES i do Miss U ! ...

But may be missing you is better than geting back !... because i know that will neva happen !..  I just keep giving myself  false excuses .... But at one point i know the truth !.. I know i shouldnt care ! but i do...

But then again ,sometimes no matter how much faith we have , we loose people.But u never forget them.And sometimes,its those memories that give us the stregnth to go on... il go on too ... just hoping against the hope !

MOod SwInGs !!!! :) :(

Once you feel like ur on top of this world,the next moment u feel like there is nothing left to do !...
You thought ul rock the day ,suddenly feel all lost .........ur happy but frustrated , ur irritated but enjoying......

Whats all this ???... mood swings !..

Our mood never stays as it is this minute in the other. happy, sad , angry, emotional , insensitive .....Familiar ? well these are the different moods we are in all through the day.You never how ul react 2 a given situation..may be this is because of the ambience or the the people around you , ur mood keeps changing . When I think about  mood swings, I find it really funny thinking about few incidents that turned out to be a laughter roit , when it had to disscussed seriously and things turning nasty when they could be just left.

Iam witnessing these things around me a lot nowadays !!.. sometimes its so frustrating to see people change their optoins due this so called mood swing without even giving it a second thouhgt !......
But like everything else this is also a part of life , part of growing up and learning thigs ............

as am wondering about this........ i think " sometimes we make it , sometimes we fake it , but il get one step closer everyday ! and figure it out on the way ! " .... :D..... :)

silly fUn !

Wondering what to post ....thinking and thinkig .........then suddenly I got a Brain wave about the fun Ive been having in this silly little college with my my funny little pals,doing crazy little things !

I never really noticed that all of us were so awsome at being silly.We trying to crack jokes about serious things and trying to be serious when there is nothing to be serious about,fighting,gossiping ! eating in the class when lecture is going on ! trying to discuss on a topic which we have absolutley no idea about.We trying to play sport that we almost suck at,trying to dance  Rock for a melody ! ......locking up the class room from outside when people try 2 come out ;) trying 2 ask for party of evry other thing,celebrating sad things :) ......locking ourself up drawing aw so silly things on the black board...taking pictures of not so good angles !giving  ...and much more !!

SIlly Things BUt Sweet ! college life ahh ....its life ! :D

Awsome schoolinG..!

"Mom i don wanna go to school...:("
"wish it would be a holiday to school.."
"hey we are goin for picnic.."
"wow we won the game.."
"oh its our last year....i don wanna leave school"
SChool...I love it!!!
These are the phases of our school life....First we dont want to and unknowingly we dont want to leave !
I still remember few days before our 10th class farewell...all of were in tears..! All those petti fights,those games,teasing and all would come to an end soon....that fact i couldnt digest!

School is like our second home! we get our first friends there,first fight,first crush...and much more...! I just wish i had remote were i could pause my schooling!

Its nearly 4 years since ive been to school....It was our annual day and surprising number of our bacth mates turned up! It was like old times again, the only difference was we were no more in our uniforms!Memories kept flashing...! all of looked so much grown up!but were still those friends at heart!
This is one of the most memorable days of my life.OLd friends are like the alphabets, without whom you cannot even spell 'new pals'.
"Distances do not matter when memories are SweeT....!"
To My school and my buddies...! :D =)

MusIc and MeMorieS.!

my heart will go on...

 one love..

kutch kucth hota hein.....

tera honelaga hun...

show me the meaning...

HOw does it feel listening to your favrouite songs..? We feel some kind of bliss , dont we? Some songs are attached with sweet or sour memories also! Does this sound weird ? believe me it isnt!

Music is a divine state of art.It soothens your mind and your body.You always feel relaxed and happy when you listen to your favrouite song.At the end of the day a good song makes you feel wonderfully happy!

This always works for me.
My lifes events are always related to one song or the other.Some hilarious : ),some sad :( .I start tending to imagine my self  in the song im listening to( funny huh?).
Let me share a few of them:
Smack That-
This one was one of  the most hillarious moments of my life, one of friends from college was trying to dance for this song and it well turned out....ah..well funny(lol..!)
Dance pe Chance-
I love this track ..reminds me of all those practice sessions of my freshers!
As long as you love me-
Reminds me of my first crush : >
Hamko hamisee-
SRK with his gorgeous sweater! awsome!
Right na na-
When ever i want to get certian things right!
......well the list is endless !
Songs also remind us about certian people in life.Forgotten people come as a flash into our minds aas soon as we hear some tracks.Memories are really sweet! THey are the part of our daily life.Keeping us connected.

I love music ! It makes me feel happy ...hope its the same with you all too....! =)

 

CraZy World..!

"We live in a Strange world where pizza reaches faster than an ambulance and we get car loans at 0% interest and education loans at 100% interest "
.. Hmmm this makes you think doesnt it ? It made me think too!
Sometimes we tend to forget what we really need and what we dont.We indulge ourselves in luxuries and forget our neccessities.

My fishies!

Pets they are just so awsome!! U will never know how time floats away in their presence..they make life simple and beautiful.

Ive seen pets bringing out a sea of change in people's lives.They share a kind of emotional bond with their owners.Peoples choice of pets may differ but the love they share is the same selfless! These animals when showered with little bit of compassion,turn out to be so lovely and caring!

My friends have all kinds of animals as pets ,some have dogs.some cats,some bunnies..........Although ive always longed for a dog, i have my "fishies" as i lovingly call them!! My cute fishes! My aquarium!

These are my biggest stress bustres.Just watching them move from one side of the aquarium to other feels like heaven!I feed them on time daily! They never get tierd of listening to me[;-)]!! I love my pet fish!

And il keep waiting for my next pet,a cute puppy to come along some day!

Freedom of speech.?!

Disclaimer:This post is not  to irk anybody's personal sentiments.

Our country gives everybody freedom of speech, that is every person has a right to put fort his views about things or issues.So why does a person gets attacked when he speaks his mind?
The recent case of Shah rukh Khan,he spoke what he felt about the pakistani players not getting chance in IPL,for which hes being targetd.How good is that?If someone doesnt like what the other person is saying he can disscuss the issue or try to put of his point of view but he has no right to attack him in any manner.
Trying to tamper with someones reputation is not good.Freedom of speech is our birth right, no matter what others say one should speak,if he feels thats right!

ParTies Or...?

As i was wondering about what my next post should be,siting on my swing siping my cup of coffe i saw an article in some magazine describing about a party,people there were dressed up as movie stars !
And this was no party of some 16 year old or something it was party of a two year old!! the birthday gril was also dressed up as her favourite actor with compelete wig and all....i was a bit taken a back readin this bit! The child had no idea why all this was happening! she was waging a major tauntrm over her oversized dress!

This is a common site among the metro-cities these days throwing huge parties is a kind of trend now.But are these parties worth so much hype? we are seeing parties over all kinds of issues somethings sound really silly too!The money that is spend on these is also ahem! well what can i say quite much!
 Im not against the concept of partying and all but it is just makig me wonder about the issue on which people are partying! Instead of spending so much on these things cant we do our bit to help out those children who never had a party ! like the kids in orphanges? Or donate something welfare socities who are trying to make someones life beautiful! So next time we think about a party think about this also!

 Disclamer:Well its just a thought ! not to hurt anybody,and defnitely not against partying!

CHOICE

Life always depends on the choices we make.This single word changes everything about a person not only in the materialistic way but also in the emotional front.
Wrong choices made always lead to doom! Self-satisfaction can never be attained when the choice we make goes wrong.Choice taken out of fear also is quite bad!

One must always have a 3-dimensional view about the decision one takes.Check what will be the consequences of the choice if it has to be made.Living life on your own terms,makes a lot of change in the attitude of the person.If you realise that the choice you have made is not right,change it even at the nick of the moment before it is too late! Or else it will be stuck like the burnt mozeralla cheese to your frying pan.Self-satisfaction is far more important than worldy pleasures.Even if people ridicule you, you will be happy because you will be the one who has attained bliss,through your chice.Somethings sound easy when said ,but make us feel like climbing The Everest when put into practice,this is one of those things.But once you reach the top,you will know that the view is BREATHTAKING indeed!!! :-)

Going Through Dark Tunnels!

When hope starts to fade,when everything seems lost....We feel as if we are walking through a dark tunnels.Grief seems to be prevailing all the way.Cold,dark and damp,all we have is sadness within us.Facing this kind of situation is just as teribble as trying to melt ice in 0'C temperature!Life seems so harsh on us,we start tending to feel we are destined for this.The people whom we thought were yours seem to be not botherd about you anymore,you feel everyone is happy except you!

But every dark tunnel has a bright end.Life is a climb we fall we get up.If you are being rediculed at something,think about it,think why? if you have a hunch about things think again,if you still feel its right go ahead with it.All we can do is search for this brighter end which is waiting for us.Things fall in place after you pass through this.Just keep walking,find that end and prove yourself,show what your made of!If its hard living moments by moments try making it day by day.Somethings are easy to say and hard to practice,but its worth giving it a shot!

SmaLl GesTures BiG EMOTIONS!

A smile..

A note of thanq..

Saying sorry..

Telling someone how much they mean to you....

             Or js that twinkle in the eye...

 ......These are small gestures,that dont even have to be planed.But sometimes they make someones day wonderful..!

It doesnt even gobble up your time,nor money just carries an emotion.A pat on the back for the good job they did may not give anything materialistic,but it may give them the sense of acheivement,by which they become confident and continue.When someones down and low telling everything will be ok ,may not solve anything,but theyl know there is someone who cares.
Recently Ive been to a movie '3 Iddiots',therez this dailogue "aal iz well"...That really touched my chord! When ur facing some kina problem js tell ur self those petty 3 words , by this the problem mey not be solved but you get the confidence to face it .This is also one kind of gesture.
Let me share a short story ,which tells us how these small gestures can make a huge impact.:
Once a teacher gave a small assignment to the students of her class,that is every student has to rite the names of each and every student of the class on a sheet of paper and jot down the qualities they liked the most adjacent to their names.All the students did so, the teacher collected those sheets.She rote the names of all the students on different pieces of paper and rote down all the good things about them based on the sheets she collected and distributed it among the students.Years passed by,one of her students who went on to become a soldier was killed in the war.She was attending the funeral.She rememberd him as a little boy who was always scared,who had no friends,she was suprised that he became a soldier.

Suddenly the boys mother walks up to her and thanks her,telling that it was because of her that her son became a confident and brave person.She tells her that the note that she gave the boy when he was little telling about his good qualities worked wonders on him.It made him what he went on to become!She told him that he always carrried the note with him. At this all her students who were present there pulled out their notes and thankd her for her little gesture.The teacher was moved to tears. She at that moment realised how much impact her small gesture made.

This is just an example of how emotions can be connected through small gestures.

So i leave it to you now........how many people are you gonna make happy :-) =))