ParTies Or...?

As i was wondering about what my next post should be,siting on my swing siping my cup of coffe i saw an article in some magazine describing about a party,people there were dressed up as movie stars !
And this was no party of some 16 year old or something it was party of a two year old!! the birthday gril was also dressed up as her favourite actor with compelete wig and all....i was a bit taken a back readin this bit! The child had no idea why all this was happening! she was waging a major tauntrm over her oversized dress!

This is a common site among the metro-cities these days throwing huge parties is a kind of trend now.But are these parties worth so much hype? we are seeing parties over all kinds of issues somethings sound really silly too!The money that is spend on these is also ahem! well what can i say quite much!
 Im not against the concept of partying and all but it is just makig me wonder about the issue on which people are partying! Instead of spending so much on these things cant we do our bit to help out those children who never had a party ! like the kids in orphanges? Or donate something welfare socities who are trying to make someones life beautiful! So next time we think about a party think about this also!

 Disclamer:Well its just a thought ! not to hurt anybody,and defnitely not against partying!

CHOICE

Life always depends on the choices we make.This single word changes everything about a person not only in the materialistic way but also in the emotional front.
Wrong choices made always lead to doom! Self-satisfaction can never be attained when the choice we make goes wrong.Choice taken out of fear also is quite bad!

One must always have a 3-dimensional view about the decision one takes.Check what will be the consequences of the choice if it has to be made.Living life on your own terms,makes a lot of change in the attitude of the person.If you realise that the choice you have made is not right,change it even at the nick of the moment before it is too late! Or else it will be stuck like the burnt mozeralla cheese to your frying pan.Self-satisfaction is far more important than worldy pleasures.Even if people ridicule you, you will be happy because you will be the one who has attained bliss,through your chice.Somethings sound easy when said ,but make us feel like climbing The Everest when put into practice,this is one of those things.But once you reach the top,you will know that the view is BREATHTAKING indeed!!! :-)

Going Through Dark Tunnels!

When hope starts to fade,when everything seems lost....We feel as if we are walking through a dark tunnels.Grief seems to be prevailing all the way.Cold,dark and damp,all we have is sadness within us.Facing this kind of situation is just as teribble as trying to melt ice in 0'C temperature!Life seems so harsh on us,we start tending to feel we are destined for this.The people whom we thought were yours seem to be not botherd about you anymore,you feel everyone is happy except you!

But every dark tunnel has a bright end.Life is a climb we fall we get up.If you are being rediculed at something,think about it,think why? if you have a hunch about things think again,if you still feel its right go ahead with it.All we can do is search for this brighter end which is waiting for us.Things fall in place after you pass through this.Just keep walking,find that end and prove yourself,show what your made of!If its hard living moments by moments try making it day by day.Somethings are easy to say and hard to practice,but its worth giving it a shot!

SmaLl GesTures BiG EMOTIONS!

A smile..

A note of thanq..

Saying sorry..

Telling someone how much they mean to you....

             Or js that twinkle in the eye...

 ......These are small gestures,that dont even have to be planed.But sometimes they make someones day wonderful..!

It doesnt even gobble up your time,nor money just carries an emotion.A pat on the back for the good job they did may not give anything materialistic,but it may give them the sense of acheivement,by which they become confident and continue.When someones down and low telling everything will be ok ,may not solve anything,but theyl know there is someone who cares.
Recently Ive been to a movie '3 Iddiots',therez this dailogue "aal iz well"...That really touched my chord! When ur facing some kina problem js tell ur self those petty 3 words , by this the problem mey not be solved but you get the confidence to face it .This is also one kind of gesture.
Let me share a short story ,which tells us how these small gestures can make a huge impact.:
Once a teacher gave a small assignment to the students of her class,that is every student has to rite the names of each and every student of the class on a sheet of paper and jot down the qualities they liked the most adjacent to their names.All the students did so, the teacher collected those sheets.She rote the names of all the students on different pieces of paper and rote down all the good things about them based on the sheets she collected and distributed it among the students.Years passed by,one of her students who went on to become a soldier was killed in the war.She was attending the funeral.She rememberd him as a little boy who was always scared,who had no friends,she was suprised that he became a soldier.

Suddenly the boys mother walks up to her and thanks her,telling that it was because of her that her son became a confident and brave person.She tells her that the note that she gave the boy when he was little telling about his good qualities worked wonders on him.It made him what he went on to become!She told him that he always carrried the note with him. At this all her students who were present there pulled out their notes and thankd her for her little gesture.The teacher was moved to tears. She at that moment realised how much impact her small gesture made.

This is just an example of how emotions can be connected through small gestures.

So i leave it to you now........how many people are you gonna make happy :-) =))