Saturday, January 26, 2013

Under the Vile ?

" Don't tell a woman to dress properly , teach a man not to rape ! "


Walking on the streets at 6 in the evening to get a packet of milk , passing by a group of boys, all of sudden one of them starts passing lewd remarks all the others join in and start laughing, they even try to stop her, all she can do is walk away. She goes back home praying this to stop.
9 in the morning at  the office, someone from the colleagues tries to get her attention, try to "help" her even though she doesn't want any. A friendly conversation with an acquaintance, taken as something not so appropriate.
5 in the evening at the bus stop, men starting at her like a piece of meat, in the bus men trying to grab her, rub past her ! ... All this happening when she is dressed in a chudidaar !  
The Delhi incident shook the nation, the audacity of the crime is too much to handle.! What about the harassment  on daily basis ! ... What can be done to teach a man to respect his fellow human and not treat her like an instrument.If a girl is harassed it is her fault , she gave a chance , she is responsible for the crime, she was provocatively dressed, she has male friends. Does this stop women under vile  from being harassed ? So if a woman stops working or stops going out solves the problem?... what about the crimes taking place indoors ?

A woman is a creator of life, she is a mother, wife, daughter ! She leaves her parents with whim she lived for 20 years, just to take of a man she hardly knows, all she gets in return is violence , though this might not be the case with everyone, but cases like these do exist .. ! When can a woman feel safe ? Only when the laws are made stringent ! ... The netas do give speeches about making this country a safer one .. so why aren't the rapists given harsher punishments , why is a girl forced to marry the rapist ? Top it all certain babas telling the girl should beg not to rape her ! really mister baba what do u think ur talking ?!
The 4 accused of the gang rape in delhi are being fed and watered and nurtured ?why aren't they castrated already !
It is wake up call to the society! Teach ur boys to respect woman , teach them they have to protect them not take advantage ! teach a girl self defense , tell her she is not weak and stand up for herself , report if she has problem with someone ...be aware be safe !!!

Hoping for a change in the mind set of this society !