Friday, January 1, 2010

SmaLl GesTures BiG EMOTIONS!

A smile..


A note of thanq..

Saying sorry..

Telling someone how much they mean to you....

             Or js that twinkle in the eye...

 ......These are small gestures,that dont even have to be planed.But sometimes they make someones day wonderful..!
It doesnt even gobble up your time,nor money just carries an emotion.A pat on the back for the good job they did may not give anything materialistic,but it may give them the sense of acheivement,by which they become confident and continue.When someones down and low telling everything will be ok ,may not solve anything,but theyl know there is someone who cares.
Recently Ive been to a movie '3 Iddiots',therez this dailogue "aal iz well"...That really touched my chord! When ur facing some kina problem js tell ur self those petty 3 words , by this the problem mey not be solved but you get the confidence to face it .This is also one kind of gesture.
Let me share a short story ,which tells us how these small gestures can make a huge impact.:
Once a teacher gave a small assignment to the students of her class,that is every student has to rite the names of each and every student of the class on a sheet of paper and jot down the qualities they liked the most adjacent to their names.All the students did so, the teacher collected those sheets.She rote the names of all the students on different pieces of paper and rote down all the good things about them based on the sheets she collected and distributed it among the students.Years passed by,one of her students who went on to become a soldier was killed in the war.She was attending the funeral.She rememberd him as a little boy who was always scared,who had no friends,she was suprised that he became a soldier.
Suddenly the boys mother walks up to her and thanks her,telling that it was because of her that her son became a confident and brave person.She tells her that the note that she gave the boy when he was little telling about his good qualities worked wonders on him.It made him what he went on to become!She told him that he always carrried the note with him. At this all her students who were present there pulled out their notes and thankd her for her little gesture.The teacher was moved to tears. She at that moment realised how much impact her small gesture made.
This is just an example of how emotions can be connected through small gestures.
So i leave it to you now........how many people are you gonna make happy :-) =))

1 comment:

  1. hey wow gal i bet my lyf dat sooner r latr m sure dat u gonna b a gr8 wruter n i aint jokng just lovd it keep gng high

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