Saturday, January 26, 2013

Under the Vile ?

" Don't tell a woman to dress properly , teach a man not to rape ! "


Walking on the streets at 6 in the evening to get a packet of milk , passing by a group of boys, all of sudden one of them starts passing lewd remarks all the others join in and start laughing, they even try to stop her, all she can do is walk away. She goes back home praying this to stop.
9 in the morning at  the office, someone from the colleagues tries to get her attention, try to "help" her even though she doesn't want any. A friendly conversation with an acquaintance, taken as something not so appropriate.
5 in the evening at the bus stop, men starting at her like a piece of meat, in the bus men trying to grab her, rub past her ! ... All this happening when she is dressed in a chudidaar !  
The Delhi incident shook the nation, the audacity of the crime is too much to handle.! What about the harassment  on daily basis ! ... What can be done to teach a man to respect his fellow human and not treat her like an instrument.If a girl is harassed it is her fault , she gave a chance , she is responsible for the crime, she was provocatively dressed, she has male friends. Does this stop women under vile  from being harassed ? So if a woman stops working or stops going out solves the problem?... what about the crimes taking place indoors ?

A woman is a creator of life, she is a mother, wife, daughter ! She leaves her parents with whim she lived for 20 years, just to take of a man she hardly knows, all she gets in return is violence , though this might not be the case with everyone, but cases like these do exist .. ! When can a woman feel safe ? Only when the laws are made stringent ! ... The netas do give speeches about making this country a safer one .. so why aren't the rapists given harsher punishments , why is a girl forced to marry the rapist ? Top it all certain babas telling the girl should beg not to rape her ! really mister baba what do u think ur talking ?!
The 4 accused of the gang rape in delhi are being fed and watered and nurtured ?why aren't they castrated already !
It is wake up call to the society! Teach ur boys to respect woman , teach them they have to protect them not take advantage ! teach a girl self defense , tell her she is not weak and stand up for herself , report if she has problem with someone ...be aware be safe !!!

Hoping for a change in the mind set of this society !

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Blank !

Couldn't think of a more appropriate title here ....

Emotions they play a very important role in ones life .. once played with are never the same again . Once ur hurt for a life time , every little something tends bother ur emotional quotient !
People have their own choice of favorite emotions , mine happens to be sadness , grim and all the darkness , sometimes i feel im being pulled into a dark hole and there is no one pulling me up, i wonder if i have some serious psychological problem. One moment im all happy , i feel like im the king of the world , one little tweeny bit of bad , i start feeling like a gigantic mountain of sadness dropped on me ! .. I wonder if i can ever  come out of what happened with me and left me to be the person iam now , no matter how happy iam , i still have nightmares of getting hurt. I may have turned into some drama queen , with nothing but a bag of emotions , but trying to get out and become a diva of happiness ! ( hopinng il be that one day ! )

I feel pity for people who put up with the amount of nuisance i create with all the emotional atyachar ! I have a strong feeling theyl snap one day !

Past cannot be corrected , it doesnt mean it doesnt haunt you ! because it haunts me everyday , i rarely have a night without suddenly waking up because of the nightmares!....

One thing loud and clear in my head im scared of getting hurt , and i hate getting hurt !

State of mind now : Blank

Sunday, October 30, 2011

To My GrandMUM !!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ef0Icfjz1JI


This is small tribute to my loving grandmum !! .. I miss you a lot . I still cant digest the fact that you passed away ! I missed your call , wishing me good luck on my most important exam ! I miss your presence at your place .. when i walk past your room i still feel ur sitting there and stitching ! :( I miss you !!!

Sunday, September 18, 2011

The Bag !



Fashion, the very word sounds fashionable. Trends keep coming and going ,then they take a 360 degree turn and come back in a circle.Ive been noticing this(actually for quite somrtime now :P).One fashion accessory that keeps repeating is "The Bag". My aunt used a jute bag when she was at college , she kept it safe for me , i wondered why she was doing this because it would be out of fashion by the time i go to college! .. But i was wrong !!!!!.... 15 years later when i started college , there is was "the jute bag" trend ! Thanks to the "go green" moment most of the youngies( that is we .. the youth :P )are sporting jute bags ! .. they make quite a fashion statement , they are ethnic, they look hip at the same time traditional and go along great with salwar kameez and kurthis ( most of the colleges now have these as dress code ! :( ). They now come in loads of colors and sizes to suit your comfort and fashion sense , they give give you an elegant look ! The best part .... they are pocket friendly ! ... the starting price of the jute bag is from 100 to 150 ... and if you plan to buy in the street side you can bargain and get them at cheaper price !!! .. So, Yay! to " Jute Bags ", im off to get my new jute bag !! :)

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Nostalgia...!

Suddenly ... what i mean to say is all of a sudden your life takes a 180 degree turn,then you feel your back to square one ! .. from past two days i'm getting sense of nostalgia......... here i'm getting experiencing it in a sorrowful way !... Some persons and their memories leave a mark on you that can never be wiped( even the use surf excel mattic wont help! ).. One look at then BOOM ! images fly around  you like some kinda movie reel !  To top it, what if the people who you expect to understand don't ?.... leads to "one sober of a person" :P....
I know very well its not their fault , but somehow i end up blaming them !... I make them put up with all the nonsense i throw at them .. sweet that they are bear all of this ! ... I wanna say sorry to them for this !...
But i wish I could get out of this .. i was crying my lungs out for it to fade away ! ... But no it had to stay until i cracked ! :((  and now I feel lost !
I'm mending myself now .. As i'm posting this i cant help myself wonder " what the hell did i just write ? does it make sense ??" but as always just random words put to phrases ... to get things outta my head ! .. adios for now ... il write about fashion tomorrow ! :P



Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Ah, Well.....!

It seems i cannot really post until  i go through worse situations ! .. Well what happened was my MUM
read my PD !( personal diary :P) .. i know not a very good start ! .. well you can guess rest of the story .. i wrote in some of the darkest things about my life in that .. well that lead me to a chaos situation , evidently :P.... Im robbed off my phone because of this , threatens to stop my studies was what followed .... being a moaner that iam , started crying , apologies and stuff , but none of this seem to work , my dad used cuss words on me ... i had no choice but to bear all this ...... well as always my " fairy godmother " helped me again !!!! .... i plucked up the courage to face my dad and tell him what i truly feel ... i dunno how but i managed to write exam today !! now everything seems normal ! except for the fact that they dont trust me as much as they did before !!! ... :( actually its my fault so i dont really complain about that !... Amgonst all this my pillar of hope never lost faith in "good time will come soon"... Thanx for that honey pie ! it meant a lot .. i know you were abused to because of all this mess .... but thanx for standing there for me !!! ... :) Ah, well ... what i learnt finally was ... DONT TRY TO BULFF YOUR PARENTS.. coz' they will know !! best part il be lot more careful now :P

Friday, April 29, 2011

Its a MAgical Life !!!

Life truly is magical ... Surprises wait for you at every corner , the thing is you just miss them sometimes due to worldly reasons ! It feels so nice when you get what you always wanted to have , its just awesome to know someone is there for you !..
One day you feel its not worth a try , once you give it a shot , things come hopping around you !! My wish for a wave of that magic wand just came true ! When every puzzle piece is fitting perfectly into the board the only fear you have is loosing some of them ! *touch wood* which i don wana !!!
I hope this magical feeling lasts for ever ... and my fairy godmother watches me over for rest of my life , ready to wave that wand whenever im in trouble :P
............. Its A Magical , Fairy tale Life ......................................